1. Don't Propose to her because you are forced or coerced to marry her.
2. Don't Propose to her out of pity; to compensate her. Maybe you have been with her for 8 years and you feel obliged to marry her and not really because you love and want her.
3. Don't Propose to her because of your selfish reasons: to rip her of her wealth, for sex. Many guys these days are becoming more selfish with their intentions. They pretend to love a lady because of what they stand to gain, and when they have gotten what they want or the flow stopped they disappeared leaving the woman shattered.
4. Don't Propose to her out of fear of losing her to another man when you are not ready or convinced to settle down soonest. You make the lady wear your ring for years, preventing her from accepting other men into her life
5 Don't Propose to spite a lady; some men propose to a girl to either prove a point or as a revenge technique.
A story was told of a young man who has been chasing a lady for two years and the lady refused to allow him to sleep with her. She told the guy she would only have sex with him on their wedding night. This guy vowed that he must have a taste of her, he devised a way, he proposed to her and even went a step further in paying her bride price. On the night of their wedding after having sex with her to his satisfaction, he left her and never returned.
So guys, it is important to propose to your woman for the right reasons to avoid stories that touch the heart.
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