Men are not really that 'hard nut to crack', they all have soft flesh around their hearts too, even the strongest man on earth heart was melted on the lap of a woman. It is just that when a man don't love you it becomes a herculean task to melt the walls of his heart. More reason your man must love you more than you love him.
1. A man that loves you will move mountains just to make you happy ( no man is stingy, no man is broke, it's just that he is not in love with you).
A man that loves you will be proud to show you off to his friends, family and associates.
A man that loves you will not see your shortcomings, even when they are too obvious, (he will love you all the same wether you are too fat, too short, too tall, too tin, extrovert, introvert, wether you can cook well or not). He just love you totally.
Ready and willing to make sacrifices to make sure the relationship works.
He is afraid to loss you, and will protect you.